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Engagement Photos & A Few Tips

by Eating Bird Food on May 12, 2012

We finally got to take our engagement photos last week. Luckily, the weather was beautiful on Thursday and everything fell into place quite nicely. Being used to the instant gratification of digital photography, waiting to see our engagement photos was like counting down the days until Christmas morning. Seriously.

Our photographer, the lovely Michelle Chu, posted a little preview on her blog and some others on her Facebook page today. The ones she posted are amazing and I couldn’t be happier to have her as our photographer. She and her assistant/boyfriend, Jon made Isaac and I feel totally comfortable during the photo shoot and her photos are gorgeous. I’m kind of in love with her!

I’ve included a few that I downloaded from facebook so the quality isn’t as great as those you’ll see on her blog, but I had to show you all some.

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I was super nervous about the photos. I scoured wedding forums for engagement photo tips – what to wear, should I get my hair and makeup done?, where in Richmond is the best place to take photos, etc. It took me weeks to pick out where we would do them and what I was going to wear. I wanted the photos to be perfect so I got my nails and hair done and had my friend Laurel, who is one of our bridesmaids, do my makeup. Laurel is a stylist in L.A. and she worked her magic on us by helping pick out our outfits, doing my makeup and coming with us on the photo shoot to help out. She’s amazing and I’m so lucky that she was back home in Richmond this week.

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The funniest part about the ivory dress I wore is that I ended up borrowing it from Liz at the last minute. I saw her wear it to the VA is for blogger brunch at Stella’s and loved it. I tried to find it at the store but couldn’t so she was super sweet and let me borrow it. Thank you so much Liz – it was perfect!

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We did some of our photos at Maymont. It was the place Isaac proposed to me and it has a ton of beautiful places to take photos so it just made sense. The tree in the photo above is actually the exact spot I was sitting when he proposed. You can read the full story here.

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We chose to do the other part of our session at Lamplighter because it’s our favorite coffee shop to walk to on Saturday mornings. Olive hangs with us outside and we sip on their delicious coffee.

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Overall, the whole experience was so fun for us. I’m no pro, but here are a few tips I have for any couples out there that are taking engagement photos soon:

  • Get inspired. I searched wedding blogs and photography websites to find engagement photos, hair styles and makeup looks that I liked. I pinned all my ideas on Pinterest and shared them with every one I was working with – Michelle, Laurel and my hairdresser. It worked out great because everything was in one place.
  • Pick clothes you feel comfortable in. You don’t want to be tugging on a shirt or pulling down a dress for every photo. This is why I ended up taking back the original dress I bought from Urban Outfitters.
  • Coordinate your outfits but don’t get too matchy-matchy.
  • Feel free to do your own hair and makeup, but I found it was less stressful for me to have someone else do those things. I used my normal hair dresser at Red Organics Salon and styling only cost $35.00 – it was definitely worth it!
  • Wear more makeup than you normally do because it looks like much less in the photos. I wanted a natural look because I don’t wear a ton of makeup normally. Looking in the mirror before the photos it looked like I had on a ton of makeup but in the photos it looks natural and lovely.
  • Relax, be yourself and have fun – at first it’s a little awkward to act natural in front of the camera, but Isaac is great at making me laugh so that helped. By the end of the session we both felt like pros.
  • Bring props – we used fun signs, flowers, scrabble pieces, a blanket, coffee and Olive as our props.
  • Pick locations that mean something to you as a couple. It makes the photos really special.
  • Get comfortable with your photographer. Have a few meetings beforehand and review the photos on their website to make sure you really like their style. We fell in love with Michelle as soon as we saw the photos on her website and once we met her in person, we knew she was the perfect fit for us.

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I hope you are having a lovely Saturday. We’re definitely enjoying the beautiful weather here in VA.

All photos courtesy of Michelle Chu Photography.

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I Said Yes to the Dress

by Eating Bird Food on April 22, 2012

Yesterday I mentioned a little road trip that I was embarking on and now I can share the details. Well, some of them at least. :)

A few weeks ago my sister, mom and niece came to Richmond and we went to a couple shops here locally. The first place we went was Bridal Elegance. The staff was super helpful, not pushy at all and they had a good selection of dresses. I tried on 10-12 dresses and was able to figure out right away that my vision of a lace, form fitting dresses wasn’t going to work for me.

Here is one of the dresses that I loved online and tried in the store and didn’t like at all.

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All the lace dresses looked like the dress was wearing me rather than me wearing the dress. I also thought I would like to have cute shoulder straps on the dress, but soon realized that a strapless, sweetheart neckline was my favorite style.

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(Not my dress)

One dress I tried on at Bridal Elegance was my absolute favorite and I just kept comparing every dress I tried on afterward to it. The price was a little over what I wanted to spend, but not by much so it was still doable. I left feeling super happy that I found at least one dress that I loved.

The second place we went that day was Tiffany’s Bridal. They also had a good selection of dresses and were friendly, but unfortunately the appointment started off on a bad note because they had somehow accidentally deleted my appointment and they didn’t have a sales consultant that could give me her full attention. They sent someone over to help out periodically but for the most part, my sister had to help me get in and out of the gowns. I tried on quite a few dresses at Tiffany’s and some were gorgeous, but none of them excited me as much as the one I had found earlier.

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(Not my dress)

So after two places and 4 hours of shopping, we called it quits for the day and I figured I would make more appointments at some other shops over the next few months, just to be sure there wasn’t something better out there for me.

So back to the road trip, Ellen (Isaac’s mom) and I drove to Lynchburg yesterday to a really unique bridal store I had heard about from a vendor when we were looking at venues.

The name of the shop is Church St. Bridal and they sell sample dresses that have been donated from different bridal stores. Most of their dresses come from Kleinfeld Bridal – the famous “Say Yes to the Dress” store. All the dresses are priced at an extremely discounted price and the proceeds from the dresses go to support YCWA of Central Virginia- a battered women’s shelter. Definitely a win-win situation!

It was completely worth the four-hour car drive there and back!

The store was really well organized and the staff was super knowledgable and helpful. The biggest perk is the prices! For $200-$900 you can purchase a bridal gown that retailed for $800-thousands. Sometimes the shop receives dresses with a retail value between $10,000-$20,000. These are priced higher in order to discourage speculating.

Since the dresses were samples, some had small make-up stains or were missing a few beads, but nothing that couldn’t easily be fixed. I tried on about eight dresses and ended up falling head over heels in love with the last one I tried on. It’s beautiful and fits like a glove! I think the top might need to be taken in a bit and sit a little lower on my chest, but otherwise I don’t think I’ll need much alterations done to the dress. I couldn’t stop smiling when I had it on and kind of wish I could be wearing it right now. It’s that lovely!

Isaac’s mom was a huge help the whole day and helped immensely in making the final decision. Although I definitely wish my bridesmaids and mom could have been with me, it would have been really hard to coordinate. I could have put the dress on hold and waited until I could bring more friends and family to see it, but I knew it was MY dress so that didn’t seem necessary. I sent them all photos and they’ll get to see me in it very soon, I’m sure.

So after only three stores and about 30 dresses, I said YES to the dress! Obviously I won’t be posting any photos of THE dress because I don’t want my fiancĂ© to sneak a peek before the big day. ;) Don’t worry though, I’ll have plenty of photos to share after the wedding.

Oh, and the best part about buying my dress at Church St. Bridal is that I already have it at my house so I can go put it on whenever I want. Maybe I’ll go do that now…

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Front and Center – Wedding Planning

March 12, 2012

I really wish there were a few extra hours in the day… then maybe I would have time to blog about all the things I want to blog about. Seriously though, there has been a ton going on lately and it’s a little overwhelming. For now I’ll share what’s front and center on my mind [...]

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Time for Romans (At Lewis Ginter)

March 1, 2012

As most of you know, Isaac is a Montessori school teacher. He teaches 1st-5th grade, all subjects, all in one classroom. Ever since Isaac shared the news about our engagement with his students via Show & Tell, they have been really excited – particularly the girls. Apparently one of the hot topics is who our [...]

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A Different Sort of Valentine

February 15, 2012

We may not have our date set yet or our wedding venue booked, but at least I know all my bridesmaids are ready and willing! It took me quite a while to decide how I wanted to ask the special ladies in my life if they would be part of my wedding. Since none of [...]

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The Weekender

February 11, 2012

So happy the weekend is here! It’s already started off quite well and there’s plenty more fun to come… Yesterday morning before heading to work Isaac and I checked out another wedding venue – The Carillon. It’s a city owned World War I memorial located in a park near downtown Richmond. There are a lot [...]

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